Don’t ever get into a relationship in hopes you will change the person you’re with. When you take that step, when you decide to get into a serious relationship with someone, it should be because you’re in love with them. The way they are. Because you should love them for what they are, and not what they might be someday. Be with someone you love, and someone you accept. Don’t push them to become something they’re not. Don’t try to change them. Love them for them.